tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26183637.post4738501454703740447..comments2023-05-19T06:35:18.908-04:00Comments on Trash Talks Back: Could We Start Again, Please???TNTrashhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09716870590693981502noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26183637.post-67446318680278581702007-03-19T04:07:00.000-04:002007-03-19T04:07:00.000-04:00The biggest irony that I saw was the projectionism...The biggest irony that I saw was the projectionism. He accused me of betraying him, when he had betrayed me years ago. Deep down, I knew that he didn't know me all that well, and now it's been confirmed. But what did I expect? It's kind of hard to get to know a person that you can't see as human.<BR/><BR/>At the core was the liberalism. He didn't really get the politics of being a pro-feminist ally, and that was revealed too. How easy it was for him to feel attacked by a poor Black woman challenging his behavior in her own space. How quickly he saw enemies where there were none. How easily the misogyny and paternalism came to the surface. And all it took was one five-paragraph note of criticism. <BR/><BR/>This was a hard lesson to learn, but it had to be learned. It's never to late to start again, but I can't wait 'til that happens. I have to move on.La Otrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12389700067149488878noreply@blogger.com